I have these pretty votive candles through Welcome Tia. They are locally made from beeswax, and they smell and look great. However, I've come up with a few ideas to decorate votives, if you want to them into something extra special or bring in your wedding colours/theme.
A doily wrapped around the candle would look great at a vintage-inspired wedding or bridal shower:
Use candlesticks to add height. I'm always a bit nervous to use taper candles with little ones around, but placing a votive on top of a candle holder is elegant and safer:
Incoroporate your colours by tying string around the candle:
Or get your glue gun out and add cinamon sticks to the votive. Bonus - it smells fantastic: